Toldot, Genesis 25:19-28:9, Parshat Ha Shavua for Shabbat, Saturday, November 6, 2021
We live in a time of contention and strife. Perhaps human beings always have, but these days our conflicts seem intractable, without the possibility of resolution, a zero sum game where if one side wins the other loses completely. This is a worldview based on fear and scarcity. There are times when conflict and strife may be necessary, but there are also times when we must find a way of reconciliation and peace. Water is the source of life for nomadic desert peoples. Without it they will die. What could be more essential or a greater source of conflict?
In this week’s Torah portion, Isaac and his servants reopen the wells that his father Abraham had dug and they find a spring of fresh water. But the shepherds of Gerar, their neighbors, claim it as their own. So Isaac names the well Esek, which means “contention.” Then they dig another well and the shepherds of Gerar dispute with them over that one too, so Isaac calls it Sitnah, meaning “harassment.” After these two conflicts Isaac moved farther away from Gerar, “and dug yet another well, and they did not quarrel over it; so he called it Rehoboth, saying, “Now at last the LORD has granted us ample space to increase in the land.” (Genesis 26:22).
The word rehoboth is connected to the Hebrew verb, l’harhiv, to expand, broaden or amplify. Rather than fight with his neighbors over the precious resource of water, Isaac broadened his view and increased the amount of water available, eliminating the source of the conflict.
May we all learn to be like Isaac. To grow our resources, be generous, find ways for all to share in the bounty of God’s earth, and reject the view that there can only be winners and losers. Perhaps then we find a way out of conflict.
~Rabbi Dean Kertesz
Vayetzei, Genesis 28:10-32:3, Parshat Ha Shavua for Shabbat, Saturday, November 13, 2021
November 12, 2021 by Dean Kertesz • Drashot
The great gift of human consciousness is perception, the ability to see. We are blessed with excellent sight. Yet, how often do we realize later that what we thought we saw was not accurate, that our first impressions are wrong, or that we only see a portion of the picture, not the whole thing. Eyewitness testimony is often inaccurate. Our perceptions of others, of our world, and of our reality is often painfully inaccurate.
But Jacob seems to be blessed with a deep perception of the hidden spiritual realities hidden within day-to-day existence. At the beginning of this week’s parsha, Jacob is fleeing the Land of Israel to escape his brother. He lays down to sleep, and dreams of a ladder with spiritual beings ascending and descending the ladder. Upon awakening he says, “Surely the LORD is present in this place, and I did not know it! Shaken, he said, “How awesome is this place! This is none other than the abode of God, and that is the gateway to heaven.” (Genesis 28:16-17)
As he passes out of the Land of Israel, he perceives God’s presence and the Land’s holiness. He marks it with a stone and calls the place Beit El, the House of God. At the end of the parsha, after 20 years of servitude to Laban, his father in law, Jacob confronts Laban for his unfair treatment and negotiates a pact of peace. He makes another stone marker and calls this place mizpah, the place where God sees.
We are called the Congregation of Jacob, and the Children of Israel, not the Children of Abraham or Isaac. Perhaps this is because Jacob had the ability to see things as they truly are; to see the holiness in life, and God’s workings in the world. May find the ability to see the holiness in our lives and sanctify God’s presence through our actions.
~Rabbi Dean Kertesz