Shmini, Leviticus 9:1-11:47; Exodus 12:1-20; Parashat Hashavua for Shabbat HaChodesh, April 6 , 2024
How do we mark time? How do we engage in our closest and most sacred relationships? These are the questions that come to mind this coming Shabbat, the fourth of special Shabbatot Pleading up to Pesach. It is called Shabbat HaChodesh (The Shabbat of the Month) because it is the Shabbat that immediately precedes the month of Nissan, the month of Pesach. In the special maftir Torah portion for this Shabbat we read, “This month shall mark for you the beginning of the months; it shall be the first of the months of the year for you.” (Exodus 12:2) and our Torah portion then goes on to describe the first Passover Seder and the sacrifice of the paschal lamb. Thus, calendared, or marked time begins with the month of the Exodus from Egypt, not with Rosh Hashana, the Jewish new year, as we often assume. It is our liberation from slavery that is the essential event and all Jewish times starts and returns to this central event. So, how we mark time tells us what we, our culture, values most.
It is the same in relationships. In this week’s Torah portion, Aaron’s sons, Nadav and Avihu, are killed when they bring strange fire, or unsanctioned incense into the Holy of Holies. Some of our sages explain that they were killed, not because of any sin, but because their desire to be close to God was so strong that they entered the Holy of Holies when they should not have done so. In their excitement and desire they did not respect God’s boundaries; thus they were struck down. We can learn from this that a strong relationship must be motivated by a desire for genuine connection with the other. A good relationship should be close, giving, and concerned. But we also need to respect the autonomy and the boundaries of others. If we are overbearing or focused only on our needs, we do not see the other person for who they are and their needs.
How we mark time and how we treat others shows who we are and what we value most.
Tazria, Leviticus 12:1-13:59; Parashat Hashavua for Shabbat, April 13, 2024
April 12, 2024 by Dean Kertesz • Drashot
In the Jewish religious imagination words have an awesome power. God created the Universe with words, “God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light.” (Genesis 1:2). God’s revelation of Torah at Sinai came about through spoken words, “God spoke all these words, saying:” (Exodus 20:1), and then continues with the Ten Commandments. “The Ten Commandments,” is actually the Christian designation of the revelation. In Hebrew they are called Asseret HaDibrot, the Ten Utterances. Thus morality also came into the world through the spoken words.
While words can create they can also destroy. We have witnessed the use of language to destroy entire political systems, pave the path to war, and create an environment that makes genocide possible. The Nazis were masters at this manipulation and remain the personification of evil. We also know, all too well, how language can be employed to hurt others and break down their self-confidence and self-esteem. This is the reason that gossip is considered such a toxic and sinful behavior.
This week’s Torah portion is Tazria and explores the social and ritual impact of contracting skin disease (tzora’at in Hebrew). Our sages suggest that skin disease was an outside manifestation or punishment for gossip. They made a pun on the name of the disease by saying, tzora’ah is a punishment for motzi shem rah, bringing out a bad name or gossiping about someone. They also said that gossip hurts three people, the one who is gossiped about, the one who spreads the gossip, and the one that hears the gossip.
Whether you believe, as our ancestors did, that disease is a punishment for social wrongs, it is clear that we Jews give words great power, to to build up or to destroy. It’s worth thinking about what we want to say and how we want to use our power of speech, for good or for ill, before we next speak.