A Message from Rabbi Dean for the High Holy Days – Memory and Memorial
Most of us are aware of the Yizkor service on Yom Kippur afternoon where we remember family members and those we have loved throughout our lives and are no longer with us. But there are two other traditions of memorial particular to the High Holy Days that have deep meaning and value. The first is Kever Avot, literally the graves of our ancestors. This is the practice of visiting the graves of our parents (or those who raised us) prior to the start of the High Holy Days. It is an opportunity to reconnect and remember the values they taught us and the examples they set in their lives.
The second is lighting a yahrzeit candle on Yom Kippur before leaving for the synagogue or lighting candles on Kol Nidre evening. The candles burn for 25 hours and, as with Kever Avot, evoke the memories of our loved ones who are no longer with us. Yahrzeit candles can be purchased at the TBH gift shop and at many larger grocery stores.
We will also continue to remember our Israeli brothers and sisters who were murdered on October 7, those who were taken captive and killed, those captives who still remain alive and the soldiers who have died defending our people.
Lech-Lecha, Genesis 1 2:1-17:27 – Torah Reading for Shabbat, November 9, 2024
November 8, 2024 by tbhrich • Drashot
I once saw a sign in front of a church that said, “Your life is God’s gift to you. How you use it is your gift to God.” This Shabbat’s Torah portion begins with a command, “Adonai said to Abram, “Go forth (lech l’cha)from your native land and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you.” (Genesis 12:1) Lech l’cha is an interesting Hebrew construction. It seems to mean, literally, go to yourself. Robert Alter (21st C. California) in his translation of Genesis translates it as “Go forth,” Rashi (12th C. Germany) in his Torah commentary says it means, “go for your own benefit.” Ibn Ezra (14th C. Spain) in his Torah commentary says it means, “take yourself out” of your father’s house. There is, in all these translations, a sense of call and response: God challenges Abraham to begin a great adventure, the outcome of which will be good but is unknown. God is asking Abraham to leave all he knows, all that is familiar and comfortable and take himself to a new place, so he can fulfill his destiny. With this challenge the Jewish story begins. So it is with us also. Like Abraham, God gives us the gift of life, but how things will turn out is unknown. This week’s Torah portion teaches us that if we accept the challenge of life, to live it fully, in all its twists and turns, its joys and its sorrows, we, like Abraham, may become a blessing to those around us. May we have the courage to accept God’s challenge.